(From Clark Funeral Home)
Ken Barnes often referred to himself as “the most blessed person I know.” He lived every day of his life faithfully, following the Lord and often sharing stories with others about God’s goodness throughout his life. He went to be with Jesus on July 26th, 2025 at the age of 84.
Ken was born on January 11, 1941, in Sulphur, OK to Houston and Blanch (Givens) Barnes. Although he didn’t have any siblings, he had many cousins and lived in a neighborhood full of kids with whom he shared plenty of mischief together. You couldn’t hear about his childhood without the mention of his own “Papa Givens” - a beloved title that he himself would later gain.
After high school, Ken went to Oklahoma State University where he earned his teaching degree, met his future wife, and participated in numerous shenanigans. If you ever talked to Ken, you might have heard a story about calling the radio station to earn free pizza, creating counterfeit passes to get into every basketball game or even making up a fake fraternity, Omega Eta.
After graduating college, he married Lou Barnett of Wewoka, OK and they moved to FairPlay, “Colora-duh” for him to begin his teaching career - the beginning of “Mr. Barnes.” In July of 1965, they gave birth to their first daughter, Kristi (Enloe). Ken & Lou decided Kristi needed to experience more than just snow, so Ken accepted a math teacher position in the little town of Neosho, MO - the place he called home for the remainder of his life.
Soon after arriving in Neosho, they started building ‘the gang’, a group of friends that routinely got together at each other’s homes to play games, eat, and mostly ‘visit’. Then in July of 1968, Ken & Lou gave birth to their second daughter, Beth (Fuller). Ken was very proud of his daughters and wanted to make sure they knew every day how much he loved them. He was a true representation of the Heavenly Father’s love for us. “It was just really fun” was the response he would give when asked about being a dad.
Ken loved every season of his life: building ShadeTree Furniture, painting houses during the summer, teaching math, driving a bus, or his personal favorite job-: being principal at Central School. For years after he retired, “Mr. Barnes, is that you?” was a common phrase he (and his whole family) would hear anywhere he was seen. Each time a former student would stop him, he knew them by name and would take time to swap stories. It might’ve even become a running joke with his family because they couldn’t go anywhere without someone recognizing him.
After Lou’s passing in 1996, everyone, including Ken, knew he needed another partner to walk through life beside him. As he was praying, God gave him the name Lana. Once he figured out which Lana (Evans), he got her phone number and called to set up a date. They immediately bonded over having two daughters, white Town n Country vans, and even their love for Diet Rite. After their first date, Ken was giving his friend, Buddy Powell, the recap and said, “I could’ve married her today.”
In March 1998, the two were married. Ken always felt “extra blessed” that he got to love two wonderful women. He also gained two more daughters, Lori (Francis) and Leslie (Maberry) and their families. They filled their life with countless roadtrips to Branson, going to ‘singins’ (that would really get Ken slapping his knee), meals and game nights with friends, and enjoying their time with their blended family.
He is survived by his wife Lana; his daughters, Kristi (Chris) Enloe, Beth (Randall) Fuller, Lori Francis and Leslie (Shawn) Maberry; his grandchildren, A.J. Enloe, Kylie Enloe (fiancé Jerome), Dagen Fuller, Lindsay (Clint) McKinnis, Lauren (Roman) Lehman, Landon (Taylor) Maberry, Hannah Francis; great-grandchildren, Jackson Lucas, Maeley McKinnis, Rigdon and Royce Lehman, Samuel and Luke Maberry, Ciara Grey and numerous dear friends. He is preceded in death by his wife Lou, his parents and his son-in-law Joe Francis.
As Ken would say, “I have really enjoyed my life” and it was a joy for all to be part of it “for a fact.” Ken’s legacy continues to live on through the countless lives he has touched, blessed and impacted throughout his life. We will miss his story telling, his wisdom, his St. Louis Cardinal updates (but only if they’re winning), and his peaceful presence - but we are grateful for every day we had with him. To know Ken/Dad/Papa/Mr. Barnes/Kenny Boy, was to love him. Ken may have given himself the title of “the most blessed person I know”, but anyone who knew him would argue they in fact were the most blessed person having known him. “So be it.”
A memorial visitation will be held on Tuesday, July 29, 2025 from 5:00pm-7:00pm at Calvary Baptist Church in Neosho, Missouri. A memorial service will be Wednesday, July 30, 2025 at 10:00am, also held at Calvary Baptist Church in Neosho, MO.
Because of Ken’s love for children and education, in lieu of flowers, backpacks and school supplies can be brought to the service or contributions can be made to Bright Futures of Neosho.