(From Parker Mortuary)
James D. ‘Jim’ Hardy, age 76, Joplin, passed away December 3, 2025, at his home after a short illness.
Jim was born November 2, 1949, in Joplin, Missouri to the late James B. Hardy and Delores (Mulkey) Hardy and had lived in Joplin most of his life.
As a child, Jim was an Eagle Scout and very active in Boy Scouts with his brother and father. Jim was a drummer in a band. He enjoyed camping and fishing and playing cards. Jim also worked for his father at Hardy Sheet Metal.
Jim fell in love young and married Nancy at only 17 years old. They were married September 9, 1967. They started a family and were very active with their children. The family enjoyed doing things together, such as riding bikes, camping, fishing, playing cards, and board games. This tradition of togetherness carried on with each of the grandchildren. Jim was artistic and often decorated the birthday cakes for the kids. He also liked to try his hand creating fun cooking experiences for the kids. Jim was incredibly competitive and handed down that trait to each of his children. Jim was a jokester. He always had a tale to tell. Some people couldn’t tell if he was joking, and he loved being able to pull a fast one on people with his sweet smile. Up until days before his passing, he was still teasing.
Jim and Nancy not only had 5 children, that still wasn’t enough. They also hosted 43 exchange students from around the world. Each student was a special experience and another person to share with. Jim always welcomed each student as if they were his child. He loved to share his experiences with the students and to learn about their culture and they all called him Dad.
Jim and Nancy traveled around the world to visit not only new places, but to see their former exchange students. Jim said Rome was his favorite destination.
Jim graduated from the former Missouri Southern State College in 1972 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration. He began his accounting career at Myers, Scarbrough & Baker, CPA’s, Joplin and from 1974-1979, he worked at Leggett and Platt, Carthage, serving as accounting manager, chief internal auditor, Eastern division controller and chief accountant. From 1980-1984, Jim worked for Motorola Display Products as accounting manager, materials manager and plant controller.
In 1986, he founded Hardy and Associates, CPA’s, PC, which is now known as Hardy, Wrestler and Associates, CPA’s, PC. Jim’s goal was to treat every client like family. Jim often told his staff that when working on a client to do it as if they were preparing something for their mother. Jim leaves a lasting legacy through Hardy, Wrestler and Associates, CPA’s, PC.
Jim always strived to better himself and the people around him. Continuing education was very important to him. He earned the title of Certified Public Accountant in 1978; in 2009 he was certified in both Financial Forensics and Accredited Business Valuation and in 2010, he became a member of the Chartered Global Management Accountants.
For many years, Jim was a member of the adjunct faculty at Missouri Southern State University and Crowder College.
In 1980, Jim published ‘The Household Budget System’ and was featured in several other local publications focusing on estate planning and basic trust concepts.
Jim spent his adult life serving people and his community. He joined Fellowship Lodge #345, A.F. & A.M. in 1992, serving as Worshipful Master, and Treasurer and Trustee from 1999 to present day. He served the Grand Lodge of Missouri as District Deputy Grand Lecturer, Grand Chaplain, and Chairman of the Ways & Means Committee. He also served as a director on the board of the Masonic Home of Missouri. He was awarded the Truman Medal by the Grand Lodge of Missouri as recognition of his extensive lifetime of service.
He was a 32 year member of York Rite Bodies of Joplin and served in the following capacities; Chapter High Priest, Council Illustrious Master, and Commander. He was invested a Knight Commander of the York Cross of Honour, served as the Lewis and Clark Commander, and was the past Regional Grand Master for Missouri Region seven York Rite Council. Jim was a past Sovereign of the Red Cross of Constantine and was its current treasurer.
Jim also served thirty-two years as a member of the Ancient and Accepted Scottish Rite Valley of Joplin. He served as Wise Master of Joplin chapter Rose Croix and cast member in the funeral & Easter services; director and treasurer for the Scottish Rite Foundation; and for the past 15 years Personal Representative of The Sovereign Grand Inspector General of the Orient of Missouri. For his service to the Scottish Rite Jim was twice awarded the Eagle Award; was invested a Knight Commander of the Court of Honour; and an extremely rare honor of being crowned a Scottish Rite 33rd Degree Grand Cross, of which there are less than 70 currently living world wide.
Amidst all of his roles and awards Jim would very quickly, and very sincerely, say that his favorite title he received in the fraternity was “Brother”.
Professional and other organizations include the Joplin Shrine Club; the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants; Missouri Society of Certified Public Accountants; charter member of Daybreak Rotary Club; served as past director of both Tri State Planning Council and Planned Giving Council; listed in Who’s Who in Executives and Professionals and was a long time and faithful member of St. Mary’s Catholic Church and served on many local boards.
In addition to his wife, Nancy, survivors include children, Paula Wolf and partner Jeff Gloshen, James M. Hardy and wife Talitha, Lisa Chapman and husband Todd, Kevin Hardy and wife Gina; one brother, Douglas A. Hardy and wife Barbara Heinrichs-Hardy; 15 grandchildren, and 8 great grandchildren.
In addition to his parents, Jim was preceded in death by son-in-law, Blake Wolf, and a son Scott Hardy. After Scotts passing Jim and Nancy adopted their grandchildren Scotty and Rachel Hardy.
Jim not only leaves a legacy of love for his family, his community, his Masonic brothers, his staff, his clients, his exchange students around the globe, but also, anyone he has met. Jim had many visitors in his final days. They all spoke of how much they loved and appreciated him for his honesty, integrity and willingness to help and teach them. One of Jim’s exchange students said it best, when messaging Nancy. “I will always remember Dad with a smile, he always made me laugh and I will never forget what he told me once: ‘Once a Hardy, always a Hardy!’”
A visitation is planned for Wednesday, December 10, 2025, from 6:00-8:00 p.m. at the Scottish Rite Cathedral, 505 Byers Ave., Joplin.
A Funeral Mass is planned for Thursday, December 11, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Mary’s Catholic Church, Joplin. Interment will follow at Mt. Hope Cemetery, Webb City, MO.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Joplin RiteCare, Inc. which supports children in speech and language deficiencies or St. Vincent Depaul Society in care of the mortuary. Arrangements are under the care of Parker Mortuary in Joplin, Missouri.