Jon Jay

(From Parker Mortuary)

Jon Robert Jay, 87, passed away on November 26, 2024, in Joplin, Missouri. He was born on November 12, 1937, in Joplin, to the late David and Roberta (Morris) Jay.

On April 4, 1974, Jon married the love of his life, Betty Lou Jay. Together, they shared 47 wonderful years of marriage before her passing in 2021. 

Throughout his career, Jon worked as a store manager and district manager for local grocery stores. Later in life, he found joy as a driver for Junge Bakery, where he delighted in sharing stories and smiles with everyone he met.

Jon had many passions. He was an avid fisherman, often finding peace and solace in the quiet moments by the water. Lake weekends and long boat rides were his favorites. His love for music was also a central part of his life. For ten years, he brought joy to others as a gospel singer with the group Faithful Heart. Above all, his greatest joy was spending time with his beloved Betty Lou. The holiday season was always their favorite time of year, and we find comfort in knowing that Jon will be home for Christmas this year, spending the holidays once again with Betty Lou.

Jon had a special way of making each of his grandchildren feel as though they were his favorite. His unique ability to make everyone feel loved and cherished will remain a lasting memory for all who knew him. Whether through his warm words or his ever-present smile, Jon’s love for his family was unwavering.







Jon is survived by his children: Bruce Layman, Stephen Jay (Sandy), Brenda Mitchell (Curtis), Randy Jay (Robin), Beth Gorman, and Karen Jones; his grandchildren: Bryan Layman, Brandy Lichardello, Stephen Jay, Jr., Amy Ewers, Jonna Hye, Anna Kinkead, Nicholas Gorman, and Ashlie Ingram and 17 great-grandchildren. In addition to his family, Jon deeply cherished his lifelong friend, Fred Ferguson, as well as all of his friends and caregivers at Collegeview Manor, who provided him with care and companionship in his later years. His memory will be cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

The family will receive friends during a visitation on Monday, December 2, 2024, at 6:00 p.m. A funeral service will then be held on Tuesday, December 3, 2024, at 10:00 a.m. at Parker Mortuary in Joplin, MO, with burial to follow at Forest Park Cemetery in Joplin. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society or the National Pediatric Cancer Society.




Arrangements are under the care of Parker Mortuary in Joplin, MO.