Michele Vandever

(From Simpson Funeral Home)

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Michele Vandever on the 1st of April, 2026. Born on January 30, 1946 in Joplin, MO, USA, Michele lived a life full of grace, strength, and resilience. She was a woman of remarkable character, whose presence was always a comfort to those around her. As Maya Angelou once said, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Michele had the rare gift of making everyone feel special and valued, a testament to her genuine kindness and warmth.

Michele dedicated her life to the accuracy and precision of bookkeeping, a profession she loved and revered. She spent over 50 years in Joplin, Missouri, meticulously balancing the books and ensuring financial stability for numerous businesses. Her work was not just a job, but a passion. As Albert Einstein rightfully said, "It is the supreme art of the teacher to awaken joy in creative expression and knowledge." Michele found joy in her work and shared this passion with everyone she encountered, inspiring others with her dedication and integrity.

Preceded in death by her father, Harry Shade, and her mother, Helen Shade (nee Reed), brother Mike Shade, and son Jeff Mueller, Michele leaves behind her loving son, Robert Howard and longtime friend and partner Pete Hathaway. We celebrate her life, cherishing the memories of her indomitable spirit, and unwavering love for her family. As we mourn her passing, we also honor the extraordinary life she lived, and the significant impact she made on those around her.

Services are under the direction of Simpson Funeral Home. The family encourages relatives and friends to visit www.simpsonfh.com to share photos and memories of Michele. As we remember Michele Vandever, let us keep her in our hearts, honoring her legacy by embodying the kindness, dedication, and strength she exemplified throughout her life. As William Penn said, "Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young." Michele may have left us in body, but her spirit, her love, and her impact will forever keep her young in our memories.

There will be a celebration of life at Blackstone 1521 E. Broadway ST, Joplin, MO at 1PM 04/11/2026